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In this story, Family Support Specialist Coordinator Barbara Kilian reflects on a moment that shows how specialized, trauma-informed care can make a profound difference for children.

Over the past year and a half, we’ve partnered with Sea Mar to provide dental screenings at our ECE Early Learning Centers. Last year, their team included a hygienist and two assistants. This year, I learned Sea Mar hired a pediatric dentist, Kristah, to lead the screenings, and I met her for the first time at our opening event at the 49th Street center. This change reflected ECE and Sea Mar’s shared commitment to meeting children’s needs with specialized, trauma-informed care.

Her calm, steady presence immediately stood out. Kristah spoke to each child with warmth and patience, carefully explaining every step of the process. Her approach fostered a genuine, inspiring sense of safety for the child and embodied what happens when community partners and educators work hand in hand to support families. It truly takes a village.

Fast forward to the screenings at Fruit Valley. The dentist we usually work with couldn’t attend that day, so Kristah kindly stepped in to help by bringing the children into her office for their appointments. For many of our kids, walking into a room full of unfamiliar faces can be intimidating.

One child stood out. They sat together, with the child sitting on Kirstah’s lap, leaning into her, clearly unsure about the situation. The dentist immediately recognized the child’s hesitation. She took her time, speaking softly and explaining each tool: the mirror, the toothbrush, the bright light. Although the child’s mother has consistently signed consent forms for screenings, this kiddo had always refused in the past. We never push, only meet children where they are.

But on that day, something changed. After several minutes of quiet conversation and building trust, the child finally let the dentist brush their teeth and look in their mouth with the mirror. It was a small act of bravery, but it symbolized something much bigger: the strength of consistent care, patient hearts, and community partnership. Watching this young person go from fear to trust was a privilege for all of us.

This child has been part of our program since they were just four months old. Over the years, they’ve received patient, loving care from our staff. Seeing that foundation of trust come full circle at this moment reminded me exactly why we do what we do. That’s what makes Early Care & Education programs so impactful – it’s not just one person’s effort, but an entire network of caregivers, teachers, and community partners working together for the well-being of our children.

Moments like these remind me why we do what we do. Every smile, every small victory, and every trusting connection come from the collective care of our “village.”